2014. október 17., péntek

Why I left the UK - what are the challenges living in UK as a foreigner

No offence toward my English acquaintances, but I believe the following are real challenges for a foreigner living in London / UK. These are the ones why I left in 2014. The below are resulting from 3y of actual living experience, both in London and elsewhere in the countryside (Devon 1y, Hertfordshire 4m).

Unregulated, unsafe, bureaucratic
People do everything they want. Very low safety and security. Police have little force and people can get away with many minor crimes with little or no justice. Just one example: in 2013 autumn, 6 cyclists were in killed in 9 days in the streets of London in traffic accidents(!). Every official paper you apply for, you need to provide proof of address or proof of ID from the past 3 months (you do not necessarily get such papers from official authorities that often). You need to prove that you are who you are by providing all sorts of paper proofs, making expensive phone calls and visiting customer services on your costs and efforts. The authorities or officials do not help you in validating your past or identification. This shows the poor information technology and the lack of trust. Lot of burden and difficulty of everyday life on the people.

Carelessness, laziness, superficiality
Many areas in life people are careless, negligent. Things are done only on the surface, if you want the details they don't bother much. Instead of giving you the details you need, they give you little information and then just tell you, 'If you have any questions, just ask.' This shows the lack of thorough work, the necessary preparation and demonstrates superficiality.

Untidy, unclean
Rubbish is all around (bus stops, streets, open areas), rubbish bins are so dirty that I could vomit when I see them, I do not even go close to them when I try to throw away something (including in front of church entrance, the outside public rubbish bins on Tottenham Court Road), mice in underground, etc. Only touristy areas and rich neighbourhoods are kept clean. Recycling is only on papers and bulletin boards, in real life people could not care less then selecting recyclable waste from regular waste. When you tell them off, they become hostile. When English people see something that is clean and tidy, they call it 'luxury'. :-)

Self-centered, self-worshiping
People are seeking what is good for themselves and placing their own interests above everything including common interests. The last thing they care is about their community. They are seeking joy and fulfillment in finding profit and money everywhere they can and spending it on entertainment, comics, films, theatres, luxury clubs, etc. People violate others' personal space, privacy if it's in their interests (quickly firing employees without necessary training or coaching, landlords firing tenants not respecting notice periods, etc.)

Salaries are low, properties are expensive
You might be wondering, 'In this country salaries are pretty high.' Well, on paper, yes. If you compare it with the price of properties and the quality of life (see next point) salaries are actually low! If they were earning well, most people would be living on their own flats/houses and not in shared accommodation. A dirty room in an untidy house could cost from £90 per week up to £150 per week. Renting your own place in a decent (not too nice!) neighbourhood starts £1200 pcm for a 1-bedroom flat. You need to be earning at least £60K annually in order to live comfortably in the greater London area. The situation is not easier in the country. Property prices are lower but salaries are likewise. An average family are paying one half of a normal monthly salary for a property rental/mortgage which is not taken care well, dilapidated and run-down. Properties are incomparably expensive. Landlords are unregulated by the Law, they can do everything the market desires.

Expensive and low quality of life
General, everyday life which is affordable is on very low quality. Food, drinks, services etc. that are affordable are low quality for everyday people. If you want to achieve some good quality, you need to pay a very high price in every area of life. Quality and assurance checks are almost non-existing. You need to be very careful to avoid scams, bad quality services, food, drinks, etc., therefore too much burden is on the last chain of trading: the people. Two years ago people could not withdraw cash for 3 days from one of the most popular banks' ATM machines due to a computer software failure throughout the whole country. Last year, many restaurants including fast food sold horse meat as beef countrywide.

In summary, the above points are true mainly in London but more or less also elsewhere in the country in general. Note that the above blog is based on my personal experience. 

Despite saying the above, the quality of life in the UK are quite high overall. The rights of the individual are defined well and can be claimed, the rule of law is respected by the authorities, crime in London has become weaker probably due to the CCTV cameras everywhere. There are are always good side of the story always.

Originally written on 17 October, 2014. Updated on 27 January, 2020.

3 megjegyzés:

Bully the Harasser írta...

Those are terrible reasons to leave the UK. You're correct on some things, but you're missing the essential stuff.

I was going to explain and almost did, but you have a 4k character limit and my text was 12k in length :)

Miika Tynjälä írta...

I was quite deeply saddened to read about your negative experiences in Britain. Let us pray God to have mercy also on that country and on its people. Secularization is a general problem in most Western countries (including Finland, my native land, and Canada where I lived for six years in my youth and young adulthood). On a personal note, I repent of e-mailing you an interview request (as a summer assignment for my congregation's writing course) in June or July 2003, and for hating you at times bitterly because you refused to meet me. Your reasons for refusal where that you didn't know me and that we didn't belong to the same congregation. I now accept your refusal. May God in His great mercy keep changing and even sanctifying us, and all other Christians. God bless you, your loved ones, your friends, and your colleagues always! Kind regards, MT

Miklós Quartus írta...

Hi Steve,
that is quite interesting. I actually do not remember why you stated in your comment about me refusing to attend an interview with you. It happened such a long time ago, that I may have completely forgotten about it by now. In those years I went through hard rejection, I was quite hard-hearted person and I could not handle my emotions. This resulted in deteriorating my personal relations both with men and women. Anyway, things have changed and I am on the path again I believe where God is still forming me a better person. I would probably agree with an interview with you now. I wish you all the best,